These are the words I wrote for the Interfaith Vigil in Support of the LGBTQ community that was held last night in our community.
I am so glad you are here tonight. What you are doing here matters.
There are a lot of voices out there telling us to be afraid. Be afraid of the transgender person. Be afraid of the gay person. Be afraid of the poor woman and the Black man. Be afraid of the Mexican immigrant, the Guatemalan immigrant, the Syrian refugee. Be afraid of the Muslim. Be afraid.
I won’t presume to speak for other faith traditions, but I know that the Christian community has given the LGBTQ community cause to be afraid. We have painted our bigotry with the patina of piety. We have taken the words given to us so that we might know and share the heart of God and we have turned them into weapons that we have used against our LGBTQ neighbors. We have done harm. And I am truly sorry.
I want to find ways to counter the voices that tell us to be afraid. How do we silence the voices of fear? We replace them. We replace the voices of fear with a voice that whispers hope, a voice that sings courage, a voice that lets out battle cry of love.
I can’t guarantee that tonight will be a safe space. No one can make that promise. Not any more. But together we can create a brave space. A space where we show up. We show up with strong backs and confident grips, and knocking knees and sweaty palms. We show up with clarity of purpose and wobbly beliefs. We show up as people who know they are loved and as those who are desperately lonely. And we bravely claim and proclaim that all people are beloved children of God. Something happens when we create a brave space like that – we experience love – we experience giving it and receiving it. Friends, perfect love drives out all fear.
Thank you for being brave with me tonight.
Thank you for your bravery and for welcoming everyone to be brave with you.
Thank you also for giving me the chills with that speech.
Thanks, Karen. It was a special night because everyone came together and made it happen. I was glad to a part of it.
Absolutely perfect, Melissa. I’m sad to have missed the vigil; to hear you in person.
Hi Melissa, loved your post.
So great to write with you.