When we say, “Never forget,” what are we trying to remember?
If it is the heroism of those who rushed into burning buildings and smoke stuffed stairwells — yes, let us remember.
If it is the bravery of airplane passengers who stormed a cockpit to prevent more murder – yes, let us remember.
If it is communities from across the nation sending their doctors and social workers and counselors and fire fighters and nurses and money to help repair the damaged bodies and souls and places — yes, let us remember.
If it is the awareness that the executive who works in a corner office with a great view of the skyline and the commander in charge of a mighty military are vulnerable to random violence like the little black girl with braids in pink plastic bow shaped barrettes watching cartoons in the front room of her house in Chicago (or LA or DC or Detroit) and that knowledge spurs the executive and the commander to make decisions that benefit the girl in the pink plastic barrettes watching cartoons — yes, let us remember.
If it is the fear of our country being under attack and that fear helps to grow in compassion for those who do not know what it is to live in peace – yes, let us remember.
If it is the memory of September 10 when someone with dark skin or a headscarf who spoke a language we didn’t understand wasn’t automatically our enemy — yes, let us remember.
But if remembering lets us turn strangers into enemies;
if remembering gives us permission to send smart bombs and guided missiles to fight the “War on Terror” without also counting the cost to the innocent in lives and livelihood and landscape;
if remembering cons us into believing that we only need the military to protect our freedom and not also our full participation in our democracy;
if remembering tricks us into trading our rights of free speech and assembly and religion for the illusion of safety;
if remembering the 2,996 who died in the terrorist attack on September 11, 2001 , makes us blind to the 13,286 people who were killed by gun violence and 1,615 women who were killed by men they knew and the 760,000 children around the world who died because they did not have clean water —
then it would be better if we forgot.
We should forget if remembering September 11 makes us bullies. But if it makes us brave, noble, and generous may we always remember.
 in the United States in 2015. Source: http://www.bbc.com/news/world-us-canada-34996604
 in the United States in 2015. Source: Violence Poverty Center
 in 2011. Source: http://www.unicef.org/media/media_68359.html